Tuesday, April 8, 2008

悲观



我承认我是一个多愁善感的人。
我是一位悲观的人。
凡是都做最坏的打算,因为我需要做好心理准备。
我朋友常说我不应该这样。
我当然也想可以乐观一点。
可是亲爱的,这个社会是现实的。
我并非你们想象中的坚强。我也有害怕畏缩的时候。

5 comments:

OwenPua said...

每个人都有害怕的时候,这不是问题,真正的问题是在于不敢相信自己可以改变!社会固然现实,但现实的社会当中还有很多不现实的事务,孤儿院,老人院,任何慈善活动。。。你的思想就会决定你的结果。凡是想好的它就是好的,试试看。。。

loOney said...

nhy, nhy,
this is a realistic world..
u live in this world u'll havta stay strong in this world..
everyone has up and down in their life.. upset.. happy.. etc..
BUT!
we seriously cnt have the "UP" all the time or "DOWN" all the time..
you'll die if like tat..

u said u think for the worst tat would happen so tat u could be prepare for it..
so?
did i think tat what's the worst it can be to ur thinking if u do think of the saddass part only..

did u realised tat u're thinking not broad enough?
too narrowly?
is it consider as "lam sei yat bin" also..??
thinking of all negative side but not even a single positive thing.

face problems with courage
because..
no 1 has no fears,
no 1 meets no problems,
no 1 nvr sees failure.

think of both good and bad..
it isn't tat hard to face problems right? remember, treat it as a friend giving u BIG surprise.. not an enemy attacking ur country..

荣希™ said...

其实我觉得你不是『悲观主义者』,可能你接触到比较“现实”的社会,慢慢有那『自我保护』的心态
有机会,再和你分享一本书

夏日梯 said...

aiyoyo, i was just like you before, i totally change after reading a book, yet i forgot the name alr, paiseh, but bear in mind that there will always be sunny day....^0^ gambateh

Yenny said...

悲观和接受现实、懂得顾虑不一样。活在这个充满挑战的社会,我们必须懂得保护自己、常为接下来的日子打算。悲观是把好事坏事都想得很绝望,接受现实、懂得顾虑是为接下来可能发生的事情做最坏的打算。
我不知道你的是哪一种,如果是前者,你必须做出改变,如果是后者,我觉得绝对没有问题!

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